You may not realize it, but you are. We all are.
We are all fighting our own battles. Some battles bigger than others, some more challenging and tiresome and some are just all out…WARS.
They say that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. Over the last couple of years I have met some of the most amazing people that are true warriors to me. Most recently, my path has crossed with two very special people who have touched my life and remain in the forefront of my mind. I want to write about them, anonymously of course, because they may not ever realize this—they inspire me and have forever changed me at my core. Placed me a step closer to my own arrival.
One has gone through a horrific loss of a loved one and the other has gone through a physical loss. Both have been behind a “protective layer” and unable to fully live since their unique experiences. While each of them thanked me for offering them insight and guidance on how to push forward and continue on—I need to thank them because they have opened my eyes to what it really means to forgive, accept yourself, and have the will power to enjoy life after such moments. Having hurt and anger in your heart, and/or lack of self-esteem and self-worth—are huge crosses to bear. To truly forgive and turn a negative event or circumstance into a positive one is a true feat and a huge battle to overcome. We all are a work in progress. We all worry about being prejudged—and often we are guilty of doing just the same. We have to be more conscious of the fact that everyone has fears and insecurities. We have to accept one another unconditionally, more importantly we must first unconditionally accept ourselves.
A dear friend recently called me and so eloquently described what I meant to her-completely out of the blue. She explained that we can see the lines in the road directing us, we know they are there. When there is a storm, we cannot see the path right in front of us. We need illumination to guide us. It caught me off guard that she views me as the illumination needed during certain times in our lives. Some of us may need just a dim light to gently nudge us forward, others a brighter one to light the path more clearly—and during the darkest of times—we may need the high beams to fully light the way and offer hope.
I have experienced this awakening that I am VALUABLE, that “illumination” is valuable. I know that may seem like such a bold statement. But I really hope that it is not perceived as anything but the fact that I am amazed, continually amazed, on how I have been able to offer someone HOPE. A light has gone on for me here. MY path seems to be more illuminated all of a sudden as well.
My purpose? My purpose is to illuminate the path of others. Show them their path, even in the darkest of times. This seems so obvious now, but it just clicked over these couple past weeks for me.
Sometimes we don’t realize how instrumental we are in each other’s lives. I want to thank you for being instrumental in my life. Our paths truly cross for a reason. I have resolved to the fact that while I don’t think I have fully arrived…I am arriving…slowly but surely. Step by step. I have hope because of you. The illumination lighting my path is getting brighter and brighter....
Have you arrived?
Xo,
Gina